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Sunday, June 15, 2008

11 years


I have been married for 11 years wow!

I celebrated yesterday by going to work where just about everything that COULD go wrong did. It was so nice when it was finally over.

And my sweet husband of 11 years totally forgot. Or is it that he just doesn't care. It might be a little bit of both.
He has NEVER been the type to celebrate much of anything so it really should not surprise me. And it really shouldn't hurt either should it? But it does.
Perhaps he took my advice last week to "save money we really should just save it so there is no need to buy me a present for our anniversary" as advice to "just pertend we were not married this day 11 years ago and lets just go about our day as if nothing happened"
Perhaps I should just making excuses and just go out there and kick his ass.
I don't know what I am going to say to him, if anything. No matter what I say he won't change. That much I have learned over the past 11 years. I love him, he loves me that is enough.

So now I will wish him a Happy Father's Day, let him know how blessed we are to have him in our family and then go hide in my room and cry pretending the entire time that it doesn't hurt.

2 comments:

Mama living well said...

:Hug Candi!

Congrats on 11 years! Shame on hubby for ignoring it!!

Hubby and I have been together for 11 yrs too this year(married for 4 though!) and I would freak if he did nothing!

Even when we have no money, like always.., he makes me "coupons" good for a night by myself sans kids, back massages, breakfast in bed, etc..this costs nothing but it means a LOT!

I am sure your hunny will come around-kick him in the pants to remind him if you need too! LOL

Luv ya babe!!

Kara

Campbell's said...

I LOVE YOU!!!!

JUST TO LET YOU KNOW YOU ARE ON OF MY FAV. PEOPLES :)